| "Reno Finds
Her Mom" Synopsis
The Renos (the couple who
adopted the 3 month old Reno when they were of grandparents' age) are
supportive of Reno's search. But winding through RFHM is the fact that
Reno never felt at home with the Reno family. She has not been able to
let herself off this hook, this quandary over her place, her role, what
the hell she is doing in the Reno family picture. Her misfit identity
is clear. Among other places, her genes never belonged in suburbia. Mary
Tyler Moore plays Mrs. Reno in several fictional sequences where Reno
remembers what it was like growing up. Reno starts to see the search for her biological mom as a necessity, an inevitability, like Medea with the burning kids. All signs point. All bells clang. Her life has always been in tumult, but over the past 2 or 3 years, she has experienced a significant rise in the chaos. Reno's unfaith in the state arrives in full dress suit the moment she starts searching in full time earnest. She tries all the legal means. Nothing, until a social worker accidentally lets loose Mom's birthdate. Then the illegal means -- all the while, spy cams whirring. Three and a half months into the search, the social worker seems to be the only chance left. That's when she admits that the 100 year-old agency has actually lost Reno's file. Identity deleted, Reno is desperate. She talks to some detectives, but has doubts about their methods (and their fees). Who do you go to when you're desperate to find someone? Even yourself? Where do the CIA, the FBI, the Army Intelligence guys, go after they retire? Just under twenty four hours later, Reno, (with lots of cash in small denominations) arrives at an address out in Long Island. If Reno thought she knew that committing this story to film would present her with difficult moral and ethical questions, they were bupkus once she was holding the name and address of her birth mother in her hands. All of sudden, Reno's birth mother fantasy had changed into an unknown reality. Reno had never imagined her mother to be a Puerto Rican and Cuban Republican who owned factories in her rock bottom least favorite town in America--L.A.! The whole "city" is the suburbs. Turns out Reno's mom was glad to be found. She said she'd had a hole in her heart for 40 years. She had lied about her own Latina heritage in order to get baby Reno a "better" placement. But her story had been a real life secret and lie, and most of her family, including her other children, had never been told. Her guilt and shame translated into fear of being publicly identified. |